Thursday, May 20, 2010

Daddy is about the same as he has been. A contractor is busy at their house trying to set it up to make it handicapp accessible. He's making a larger bathroom for the basement where Daddy will live if and when he comes home from the nursing home. At first I thought it was a definite that he would come home, now I'm not so sure. Mom is very discouraged with his "walking". Daddy has been talking about walking with the therapist and the other day Moma got to see this "walking" for herself. She was highly discouraged. She said it wasn't really walking, just a lot of moving with A LOT of help.

Our trips to the nursing home have been fewer lately. I've been going every other day as opposed to every day. During my last visit, I watched them move him from the bed to the wheelchair; he looked so feeble. His right arm frozen to his chest with two fingers sticking out. He is also getting a gaze about him. When I sit down he will stare a hole in me. That's part of the disease too.

Daddy's speech has grown far worse in the past two weeks. He cannot get words to come to his mouth. It's so frustrating to see him wanting to say something, stuttering and searching, and then finally to give up and say, "I dont' know." That's his way of saying, "It's not worth it."

Dad's quote, "I don't know" is how we all feel. I don't know why he's not walking more. I don't know why he's not trying harder. I don't know if he can help it or not. I don't know if he'll come home. I don't know why he sleeps so much. I don't know how much longer we'll have him with us. I don't know. I just don't know.

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  1. I've been searching the backwaters of medical research for the past four years trying to find things about CBD that the neurologists have overlooked. Why? Because the five neurologists we took my mother too threw up their hands in defeat, saying "take her home, there's nothing we can do for her".

    I've been making my notes available on a web site. Start at this page, but take a look at the back-up pages too:
    http://www.perpetualcommotion.com/a/index.htm

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